Friday, October 3, 2008

Introducing....Liang Ruoting



“When Jesus Christ asked little children to come to him, he didn't say only rich children, or White children, or children with two-parent families, or children who didn't have a mental or physical handicap. He said, "Let all children come unto me.” ~Marian Wright Edelman

We received our phone call from our agency, FTIA, on August 15 around 9:30 am stating that they have matched us with a baby! After following countless blogs from other prospective adoptive parents, we anticipated a wait time of AT LEAST 2 years before hearing about a child. Since we started this process just last January, we were shocked and elated by the timing of the phone call. Another pleasant surprise for us was finding out her birthday was January 28 of this year! We prepared ourselves initially for a child 18 months old or older so news of a seven month old baby up for adoption was wonderful. We said "yes" and instantly became a family of five. Our girls were thrilled upon hearing that they would have a new sister! They excitedly began talking about sharing a room with each other. The plans for who gets to sleep on the top bunk (once we get them a bunk bed) were already mapped out.


Liang Ruoting was found at the waiting hall of a railway station on February 1, 2008. She was then brought to the Social Welfare Institute of Pingliang City in Gansu Province. At the time she weighed 2.9 kg and was 46 cm long. Currently, other than her visible disability, she is considered to be healthy. At eight months old, she sits and is able to stand by holding onto objects. We just can't wait to get our hands on her.

Throughout this process, Jon and I kept searching for signs from God to validate whether we we're making the right decision. His guidance was felt in many different ways but one of the more significant signs helped us solidify that were indeed about to travel down the path He chose for us. This sign came in the form of this little girl's name. From our research, we believe that the name "Liang" indicates the orphanage she comes from. We felt chills when we learned that "Looks like Grace" is the meaning of the name "Ruoting". On March 6, 2002, my niece and god daughter, Grace Josephine (Gracie Jo), died suddenly in her sleep when she was just shy of 19 months old . This connection of Gracie Jo's name to Liang Ruoting's, was too powerful for us to ignore. As tragic as that March day was, our entire family has tried to find the positives from her short sweet life. Who would have known this would take the form of two little girls? Lillian Grace and Maggie Josephine were adopted from China by my sister and brother-in-law sometime after this tragedy. They are such a blessing and a joy. We believe that while sitting on God's lap, Gracie helped hand pick each of those girls for this family. Ironically, we received our call on Lili's birthday. Coincidence? I don't think so. Just one other example of God's presence and affirmation that His plan was now our plan. We debated on including Grace in her name, but we are not sure. We, as a family, have decided to name her Julianne. Julianne Grace OR Julianne Liang OR Julianne Ruoting. We knew that the name we chose would have "Li" in it since my name is Deborah Lee and our children's names are Leah and Natalie. So when we received the call for Liang Ruoting, we knew she belonged in our family.

“I'm singing at the top of my lungs, I'm so full of answered prayers.” Psalm 13:5


Our cup is already flowing over.........we can't wait to make her a part of our lives.

6 comments:

Unknown said...

Dear Son & Daughter,
I am trying this again so if you get it twice it was my fault. You forgot to mention the happily awaiting Grandparents and Aunts and Uncles. Also people need to understand the reesearch that you did on Julianne and all medical information that you diligently checked out. Beyond this you did a lot of soul searching and praying for guidance. Her Chinese name and all of the God incidences were like icing on a cake. As we said early on in your decision making that we felt a peace that everything would work out all right. You have opened your hearst and home to oneof God's blessings and the love will be theree to draw on as you need it. We wil support you in any way needed as you go to China to get Julianne and as you incorporate her into our family. We are very excited and looking forward to our future grand-daughter.
Love Dad South, Vicki, Bri, Cam & Grandma Ann
PS Grandma Ann took Julianne's picture right away and this is mine.

bsouth said...
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bsouth said...

Dear Jon and Debbie,
Another sign that you may not have known about is that Julianne's birthday is the day after Cam's birthday. Love Bri

Scott www.cabincam.net said...

Anxiously awaiting to be an Uncle again! Website looks nice. Liang Ruoting looks great!
- Scott

Jenn said...

Congrats! I just visited you blog via our PingLiang group. She is so cute. We returned home with our little PL sweetie in April of this year. The nannies are wonderful and really care for the children. Your daughter is in great hands, that is of course until she is in her Mama's hands.
Can't wait to follow your journey.
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Jenn
www.ourjourneytoabbygrace07.blogspot.com

Mrs. Hewett said...

Jon & Debbie,

We are from the Pingliang family group. We adopted our son Daniel two years ago.

Just wanted to let you know a little about your daughter's Chinese name. Liang is the surname given to the children in the Pingliang SWI since about 2002. It is based on the name of the city & SWI. As a Chinese surname it means "bridge".

Ruo Ting is her given name (first & middle). Generally they double the middle name & call children by that nickname, for instance, your daughter may be called "Ting Ting" - not always, but it's pretty common. Our son's Chinese name was "Liang Xiao Long" and they called him "Long Long".

If you want to find out what her given names mean, check out www.zhongwen.com. You look up the pinyin word (Ruo & Ting) and it will show many different Chinese characters - each character means a different thing. Look for the characters that you find on your referral paperwork and click on it. That will bring up the meaning of that character and you should be able to figure out your daughter's Chinese name meaning from there. Some characters look a lot alike, so look carefully. You can also plan to ask the caregivers when you get your daughter.

Congratulations and thank you for sharing your blog with us. We look forward to following your journey to bring your precious little Julianne home.

Karen (for the Hewett Family)